Most of you are aware that our team of professional memory care and assisted living care providers here at Buford’s Manor Lake Assisted Living & Memory Care are there for all of you, young and seasoned alike. Whether you are a cherished resident, a family member, or someone caring for a loved one suffering for dementia, we hope you find our blogging efforts informative, a source of actionable ideas for you to provide better care, and a source for peace in your own lives.
Today’s blog post is intended to help you advise others who want to communicate with your loved one but might be intimidated to do that. This is a very common concern and maybe you yourself might be somewhat at a loss to offer them consultation. We find that how a person interacts and understands someone who has Dementia is so important. Recognizing different ways you can connect and communicate may help the relationship.
Consider these suggestions on different ways and opportunities to interact.
Respect. We all want respect and those with Alzheimer’s or Dementia are no different. They want and deserve respect so be thoughtful of how you speak and try to avoid phrases that could be patronizing, demeaning and/or condescending.
Speak clear and calm. Remember to refer to people by their names and refrain from using “he”, “she” or “they” as that can be hard.
It is okay to use touch. A reassuring hug or hand on someone’s shoulder can show affection without using words. Often some of our seniors with dementia miss the physical attention and can really benefit from feeling “loved”.
Keep the conversation simple. Try to talk about one thing at a time. If the conversation has multiple subjects, it can be confusing. Also, try to ask more simple questions that have the opportunity for one or two answers. This can make the conversation feel less frustrating.
Listen. Be sure to spend time listening and not always being the one to talk. If you do not understand something, it is okay to ask them to repeat it or say, “I am sorry, I do not understand”.
Talk about something they are interested in or about their past. Someone with Dementia may be able to remember his or her childhood but have a hard time remembering something that happened earlier that day.
Patience is so important. Give them some time to explain and talk. Try not to interrupt and if you ask a question, just pause and give them time to respond.
We pride ourselves for being readily available to all of you and to apply our vast array of skill sets to help in any way we can. If you are considering a senior living community for yourself or a loved here in Buford, we invite you to come visit and see the thriving senior assisted living community here at Manor Lake Buford and/or our loving memory care community here in Buford as well!